Guys, I have been reading this thread for a few days now and wish it would go away!! That being said, we all make mistakes when posting by not thinking things completely out before we type. I for one agree with HD Dude that I would not expect the seller to eat the costs of shipping. That would be very generous, above and beyond the generosity of free parts. I'm sure Shorty wishes he could go back and clearly state that now, but obviously cannot. As far as the additional cost, that's another story and I will not comment on that as it has been hashed and re-hashed here.
As far as the lights not being OEM, I would also not know the difference between stock L tails and aftermarket. An honest mistake in my book. I am not taking anyones side here, just stating how I would interpret what has transpired.